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Carol the Coach will be interviewing Michele Saffier who will be speaking about her work with partners struggling with betrayal trauma. Discovery forces partners into an existential crisis of self. The choice they are faced with has very little to do with external decisions about their life– divorce, reconciliation, therapy, polygraphs and disclosu…
 
Money issues and financial distress is all a part of the sexual addiction cycle. Listen as renowned "sex addiction's expert" Debra Kaplan talks about her new audio book which will help to unravel the damage that sexual addiction has contributed towards in the relationship. Debra Kaplan, who wrote For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial B…
 
Today, Carol the Coach interviews Gary Owens who is the male spouse of a female sex addict. He has written a book titled The Betrayed Husband’s Survival Guide as a way to tell his story and to help other men who find themselves in the battle of their lives. Being the partner of an addict is difficult, especially in the early days of recovery. And b…
 
Sex addiction is a common occurance in the military, Lauren Rich explains, "ography is a huge problem. Excluding military sexual assault in this discussion ography and infidelity are an infinite battle. You have to remember that we’re talking majority men, minority women and that they are young, testosterone filled males who look to ography as a wa…
 
It is so important to recognize how the proper sleep can help sex addicts with thier urges, cravings and triggers. And for the partner, the proper sllep insures more stress management including less triggers and more emotional regulation.Listen as sleep specialist Laura Childers reminds us how important sleep really in the management of trauma and …
 
Betrayal Trauma can feel different for male partners Their greatest wounding is to believe that nothing that they experienced with their significant other was real. They experience an out-of-the-blue grief response to the sudden loss of what they thought was their life and they have nowhere to turn because that there are very few resources for male…
 
Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Latina Griffin, LCSW, CCTP, CCPS about the benefits of working collaboratively with professionals who are skilled at understanding sex addiction. She encourages clients to find clinics who can offer partner sensitive services and also have professionals who who can provide the needed umbrella of services …
 
We have really seen the trials and tribulations that first responders experience due to the pandemic. Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dr. Gina Dunckel who specializes in trauma and knows firsthand how trauma can effect First Responders. We will be discussing First Responders, the unique culture they bring to therapy, and how to understa…
 
TodayHeather Pincelli and I will be talking about THRIVING after infidelity. Heather is a mental health counselor and coach who went through betrayal and decided to specialize in it to give partners the care that they deserve. She realized how much our mental health counselors and life coaches were not properly trained to hold space for and help wi…
 
Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Crystal Whitlow, who is a facilitator for training clinicians with EMDR. She will be talking about EMDR protocols around EMDR and sex addiction. Addiction protocols are different that other protocols around trauma although many addicts have reenacted their trauma with sexually addictive maladaptive patterns. L…
 
I recentlyYou have heard me say that the 12 Step Program could help anyone be a better person. Well now there is a book that explains how everyone should ascribe to the 12 Step Process! Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Kristin Snowden co-authored with Scott Brassart called Life Anonymous: 12 Steps to Heal and Transform Your Life. It was …
 
Tonight, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dr. Peter Cooper who will be discussing a book Ithat he is currently writing that is tentatively titled "The Flow of Self and Sexuality", that includes and opens with a short autobiographical section as well as tying the elements of nature (earth, air, fire, water and void) into our own life and connect…
 
Tonight, Carol interviews Kelly Ibarra, who has writtten a memoir about rebuilding and forgiveness after complex sexual betrayal.that both educates the reader about partner betrayal and sexual addiction and shares the process of forgiveness. Jenna Riemersma describes the book by saying, “Kelly shares a raw and personal window into her experience of…
 
Tonight, Carol the Coach, is interviewing Carrie Ishee who wrote a poignant memoir which chronicles the traumatic psychological abduction and sexual exploitation of depressed college student Carrie Tansey at the hands of her psychiatrist, Dr. Anthony Romano–thirty-one years her senior. For three years, their secret “affair” was carefully calculated…
 
Is forgiveness necessary for healing from sexual addiction? Well the truth is that it is not mandatroy to forgive the person or the acting out but if you choose to forgive you will find tonight's show illuminating as we talk to Sara Schulting-Krantz, who believes that everyone has the capacity to forgive and she will share the steps that come strai…
 
Tonight, Carol the Coach interviews David Essel, who helps addicts look at how trauma reenactment from childhood shows up as sexual addiction in the present until you deal with the past. Listen, as he shares the path that can give great insight into true recovery.By Sex Help with Carol the Coach
 
There are alot of theories as to how sex addiction evolves in the lives of men and women. Tonight Carol the Coach interviews Eddie Capparucci who specializes in treating sexual addictions and ography addictions. He works with men who struggle with the addiction by challenging them understand "why" they feel, think and behave the way they do. Togeth…
 
Like other addictions, sexual addiction, or hypersexuality, can be masking deeper issues such as anxiety, stress and depression. How we feel after a sexual experience is usually a good barometer for our intention leading up to it. Do we feel more connected or do we feel less connected, that hollow feeling that can ensue? Carol the Coach will be int…
 
Carol the Coach is speaking with Jay Stringer who is a licensed mental health counselor and author of the award-winning book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. Unwanted is based on a multiyear research project on over 3,800 men and women to address the key drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, be that the use of ography, inf…
 
There are lots of issues for men about masculinity and comparison. Today, Carol the Coach is talking with Masculinity Expert Dr. Doug Carpenter, who has identified the term "Non-AlphaMale which he will be explaining on todays's show. The social perception of masculinity is very black and white: one is either an Alpha Male or a Beta Male, and there …
 
Sex Addicts can be inandated with resentments that have fueled their sex addiction. 12 Step programs like SA or SAA typically address resentments during the 4th step of recovery. Tonight, Carol will be interviewing Andre who has actively worked his program and wants others to know why it is important to manage them as they come up in your relations…
 
Tonight, Carol will be interviewing Nick Stumbo, who has his own personal story of hope and healing from Sexual Addiction. He believes that men and women need to find support, understanding and grace from thier church. He is going to talk about the fundamental principles of healthy sexuality and freedom within the church climate. He uses Pure Desir…
 
What does a partner's healing look like after the initial crisis subsides? What is needed when she is past the initial shock? Tonight, Carol the Coach interviews Lyschel Burket, who knows both personally and professionally. After years of working with women who have navigated betrayal in their marriage and her own healing journey, Lyschel is famili…
 
Clint Davis wants to be able to talk about the balanced approach to therapy that he believes is imperative to creating real change in sex addicts. His treatment modalities include massage therapy, chiropractic care, a dietary modifications, to engage the client in looking at all aspects of his life. He explains, "We believe that working from a trau…
 
Arrest is one of the most terrifying moment of your life. Family members may be shocked, numb, or in denial. It is difficult to come to terms with and when the arrest is for a sexual crime, there is additional shame and stigma. This experience can lead us to isolation and loneliness. Prison CONversation was created to deal with the shame and isolat…
 
Carol the Coach is interviewing Rebecca Maestas, LMSW, CCPS-c who uses a Couple Centered Recovery Model with her "2 Connect " groups. She has developed two groups that provide a Help. Her. Heal foundation including having the partners attend sessions at the end of the group for relational repair. The partners can seperately atttend a group to promo…
 
Boundaries in Sex Addiction Recovery are essential to preventing relapse. Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, an APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and a Certified EMDR Therapist. She is going to define what boundaries are and the important role they play in Sex Addiction Reco…
 
Tonight, Carol the Carol, will be interviewing Judy Kelly, who is a CSAT, and has found it extremely helpful to use the Help. Her. Heal. book to assist addicts in helping their partners heal. She has made the techniques her own and has the men do additional activities to reinforce the need for on-going partner sensitive activites and shame resilien…
 
Carol will be speaking with Tim Kiernon who will be speaking about the importance of intensive treatment of sexual addiction and compulsivity for both the addict and the spouse/ partner. It is widely known that the more treatment the addict receives, the higher likelihood of sustained recovery. Tim runs A Better Lifetime Center for Hope and Healing…
 
Tonight Carol the Coach interviews Patrick Hentsch who developed the Holistic Recovery Model which addresses the fact that living in recovery must mean much more than being abstinent (not doing certain behaviors) or being sober (having clear thoughts andemotions). It is about how we respond to our clear thoughts and emotions and allow them to guide…
 
Tonight, Carol the Coach, will Debra L. Kaplan who is an expert on sex, money, and power in relationships. Debra is a CSAT who also had a history of working on Wall Street. It is no surprise that she sees many couples who have had sex addiction and still battle being in a controlling relationhip that results in feeling exploitive. Battle of the Tit…
 
Tonight, Carol the Coach interviews Steve Devlin, EdM. PhD, who explains that most of his professional career (1984-2007) was spent as a university-based researcher examining trends in aging, higher education, and deinstitutionalization. By all measures his career was on a successful path. Yet, throughout most of his adult life, he was accompanied …
 
Sometimes, couples seem to be at an impasse as to how to heal from sexual betrayal. Tonight, Carol the Coach will talk to Allana Pratt, Intimacy Coach about the work that she advocates to get couples to move beyond the anger by raising their vibrational energy to increase their sense of intimacy and compassion.…
 
For the last ten years, Brianne, had a secret she kept from all but a handful of people — I'm a recovering sex and love addict. When she learned to to share her secret, she has been able to change my life and, in the process, help other people to find peace in theirs. In March, Brianne Davis,wrote her first article for the HuffPost; I'm A Sex And L…
 
Men are not the only ones who struggle with addiction and other sexually destructive behaviors. Women struggle, too. And in recent years a growing number of women are struggling with online and sex addiction. Often it is harder for women who want help with these struggles to find it. Most resources seem to be geared towards men, so even seeking hel…
 
Tonight Carol the Coach will be interviewing Rich Badami who will be talking about how mindfulness, meditation and breathwork can calm anxiety and stress. She has an event called "Freedom From Trauma - Powerful and Profound Practices to Heal Trauma and Consciously Create the Body, Mind, Spirit You Truly Desire. Listen in as we discuss the power of …
 
There are many helpful treatments that can alter the urges and cravings of a sex addict. Concurrently, hypnosis has been used as an adjunct therapy for the limiting belliefs that both addicts and their partners have as a result of the sexual addiction, Tonight, Carol the Coach interviews Elena Mosaner MS who is a certified hypnotherapist, ICF certi…
 
Sexual betrayal trauma is devastating and takes a long time to recover from. Couples can survive infidelity, sex addiction and betrayal trauma. As you know Carol the Coach believes that here are certain things that the person who did the betraying must do to help his or her partner heal and there are tell-tale signs of recovery that the partner can…
 
It is mindboggling to know how to talk to kids.The parent child relationship is an intimate one, and as a clinician that works with families impacted by sex addiction, Dr. Piper Grant will discuss the importance, and how to talk to your children about sexual addiction. She will discuss what factors will need to be considered in order to assess appr…
 
The body and the brain want to heal.Many times talk therapy is not enough to heal the trauma that may have resulted in sexual addiction or trauma betrayal. Tonight, we will look at a documentary following two people using two different somatic therapies, EMDR, and transromational bodywork to overcome their past traumas.The Light, a documentary prod…
 
Carol the Coach interviews Carl Thomas who believes we need to reframe our conversations around the issues of addiction and focus more on the importance of healing the individual rather than the “evils” of and the sex industry. Over 8+ years of experience in this field and he has never seen a man find true & lasting freedom simply by controlling hi…
 
There is a new therapy model that is taking the country by storm. In her new book, Altogether You: Experiencing Personal and Spiritual Transformation with Internal Family Systems Therapy, Jenna Riermersma helps clients to make sense of their pasts. Jenna explains that "IFS is a way of understanding ourselves that takes into account that we all have…
 
Hilarie Barry will be talking about her mission to, along with her husband Joe, talk about the courageous decision to share their story of infidelity. She will be talking about the pain of discovery, the emotional rollercoaster of partner betrayal and PTSD. She will also be sharing with Carol the Coach the realization and understanding that her hus…
 
Sexual addiction afffects marriages and can result in therapeutic separations and divorce. In reality about half of US marriages fail and most of them involve children. One-fourth of those children of divorce are traumatized by the continual acrimony between their parents. Tonight, Carol the coach will be interviewing Dr. Larry Walman Ph.D. who is …
 
Johua Nichols believes that in the early stages or recovery, unfaithful partners experience hostility or aggression from their injured partners primarily because (1) they don’t trust new experiences or behaviors from their partners; and (2) they are tired of hurting. But, “reflection aggression” isn’t really seen until after the crises have settled…
 
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