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Men face unique issues during and after divorce. We identify and address the issues relevant to divorced dads and create an action plan to overcome them. DISCLAIMER: The purpose of this podcast is to inform not influence. It is not a substitute for professional care or advice by a qualified professional. The host as well as guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experience and conclusions, and The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast & Website neither endorses or opposes any part ...
 
The DILF Podcast (as in: Dad I'd Like to... FRIEND) was created to fill the void of community that is so sorely lacking in the modern fatherhood experience. Built as a forum to tear down the walls that typically leave men out from engaging in honest + vulnerable conversations about parenting, this podcast features inspirational-yet-relatable stories from the often underestimated perspective of a DAD. Host Kevin Seldon is the founder of a social-impact consultancy with clients ranging from aw ...
 
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Jude discusses why it is imperative to identify and object to the false narratives around intersexual dynamics and why it is critical to your life as a father. Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Book A Call. Join…
 
International Men's Day came and went and you probably didn't hear much about it. In this episode Jude discusses why International Men's Day matters and shares some research and statistics about the impact that men and fathers have on their children and society. Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Oblig…
 
Jude discusses in detail Narcissistic Personality Disorder and differentiates between mere narcissistic traits and the more abusive clinical disorder specifically the Covert Narcissist. He shares signs to look for in identifying a Covert Narcissist and what to do if you encounter one. Schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultatio…
 
Because of the numerous questions I receive from dads just entering into the divorce process, I am starting this periodic series of articles called “Practical Advice.” My goal in sharing this feedback is to give fathers a general idea regarding the process of divorce based upon my experience and the knowledge and information that I have garnered th…
 
In DILF's Season One Finale, Kevin welcomes Dan Doty, the founder of Evryman, to discuss strategies on becoming the Dad you've always wanted to be, letting down your guard and building your support network as a father... and inviting more fulfillment into your daily life. Check out Man 2.0: Healthline's Partnership with Evryman And if you are one o…
 
Jude discusses the concept of Happiness As A Self-Defeating Solution and why aligning your thoughts and feelings in an attempt to be happy is paradoxically leading to disappointment and sadness. He shares his 4 steps to attaining lasting happiness. Schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.c…
 
When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
 
When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
 
When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
 
This is the second installment of DILF's Expect The Unexpected Series, where we welcome back expectant fathers from previous episodes to see how any fears measured up to the realities of becoming a parent. / Click to check out Brian's new podcast, BRAVO & BEER / / Click to check out Brian's favorite dad-prep book, The Baby Owner's Manual / To becom…
 
This is the second installment of DILF's Expect The Unexpected Series, where we invite on expectant fathers and provide the often too-rare opportunity to explore feelings on pending fatherhood. We then welcome them back months later to see how any fears measured up to the realities of becoming a parent. / Click to check out Brian's podcast LIONS OF…
 
When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
 
In this episode Jude discusses why ignoring your problems will eventually lead to it becoming a dragon that will consume your life. Schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Contact/Schedule. Resources: There's No Such Thing As A Dragon book - https://www.amazon.com/Theres-No-S…
 
When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
 
This is the second in DILF's DADvocate Series, spotlighting fathers who are taking an active effort in making the world a better place for Dads. // Click here to learn more about City Dads Group // To become a Beta VIP for the upcoming, first-ever, comprehensive APP for Dads, visit http://DadLifeApp.com // For questions, comments, or future topic s…
 
Jude discusses his recent article at Medium.com (https://medium.com/@jts4agape/the-dirty-word-sacrifice-509fd41795ec) The Dirty Word: Sacrifice. The concept of sacrifice has been badly distorted in our modern day society. Listen to learn why and how sacrifice can be beneficial to your life. Resources: The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.The…
 
Are you experiencing divorce from a narcissistic ex? Attempting to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Duane Robert the founder of DadSurvivingDivorce.com and the DSD podcast joins Jude to talk about how to help men survive a narcissistic divorce. Topics discussed include: What is narcissism? What are signs of a narcissistic ex? Strategies to deal wi…
 
This is the second in DILF's #DadsOfInstagram Series exploring fatherhood through the lens of individuals who've entered the spotlight with a heavy emphasize on their life as a Dad. To learn more about THE DAD, visit: TheDad.com / IG / FB / TW / Youtube To become a VIP Beta user of the upcoming DadLife App, the first ever comprehensive APP for Dads…
 
Alain Dumonceaux the founder of TheAwakenedMan.net website and the Band of Brothers joins Jude to discuss the 5 Pillars of Man. 5 PILLARS OF MAN 1 - Living a Purposeful Life 2 - The Man Box - Creating A New Identity 3 - The Psychology of Connections 4 - The Precepts - The Guide Posts For Living a Purposeful Life 5 - Marriage Success - Creating a Sp…
 
Jude welcomes Tripp Kramer the founder of TrippAdvice.com, the Tripp Advice YouTube channel, and The How To Talk To Girls Podcast. They discuss the current environment for dating and provide specific and actionable tips for getting back to dating after your divorce. If you are looking to get "back in the game" this is a must listen! Resources: Trip…
 
Joining the show today is Randall Krongard the founder of the Divorced, Broke, and Paleo YouTube channel. Jude and Randall discuss why when getting a divorce it is an opportune time to begin to get fit and lead a healthy lifestyle. They share practical tips that you don't want to miss! Resources discussed: Seal Fit workout - https://sealfit.com/ Be…
 
Jude is joined by Gregory the founder of the Red Pill Men's Health website and YouTube channel and the Gregory, The Red Pil Guru YouTube channel. We discuss why 70% of second marriages fail and other statistics to consider when dating after divorce. Are you feeling lucky? Will your new relationship be successful? Resources discussed: How To Purge T…
 
We spend a lot of time discussing the joys and struggles that come with parenthood, but we rarely take the time to explore the choice one makes to enter the club. For many of us, the path to fatherhood was not an easy or straight-forward journey... but that's especially true for members of the LGBTQ community. // Check out David's Sperm Donor Dairi…
 
Jude welcomes Jonathon Aslay founder of Understanding Men Now at jonathonaslay.com and the What Would Love Do? podcast to discuss the topic of his recent podcast titled, "Men Need to Grow the F Up When Dating." Resources discussed: Jonathon's website - http://www.jonathonaslay.com Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love - John G…
 
Jude welcomes Sebastian Harris founder of the globalseducer.com website and podcast as well as author of the Rise of The Phoenix course that gives men the freedom and confidence to let their true personality shine and become irresistible to woman. They discuss a section of each chapter of the course including: -How to Turn Your Limiting Beliefs int…
 
This episode is the first in DILF's new DADvocate Series focused on fathers who are taking an active effort in making the world a better place for Dads. // Click here to learn more about Kevin Shafer and his work // For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, DM us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast…
 
Jude welcomes Dr. Jennifer Baker the founder and executive director of gooddads.com and clinical psychologist with an emphasis on marriage and family to the show. They discuss the philosophy of "Yes Dear" and "Happy Wife, Happy Life" and why it is a poor way to conduct a relationship. Some tips include: -Make it safe to connect - Learn skills that …
 
Jude welcomes DSO from the Dad Starting Over podcast and they discuss why it is that woman seem to constantly be testing men. A few of the tips they share are: -woman are testing for confidence and strength -tests aren't good or bad but it depends upon the situation -effective ways to handle the tests Resources discussed: The Divorced Dadvocate Web…
 
Finding time for ourselves as parents is not always easy, especially attempting to find the time to pursue (or even discover) our passions. In episode 12, Kevin sits down with the man Lin-Manuel Miranda called “the most inspiring guy in my twitter feed” to discuss strategies to inspire ourselves even in the most chaotic of times... // Read some of …
 
Jude welcomes Eric Payne of the Dating After Divorce Survival Guide and Podcast to discuss the topic of the appropriate time to begin dating again during or after divorce. Some pearls of wisdom shared include: -Be divorced first before dating -Don't drag someone else into your drama -Wait at least a year before dating -Seek counseling, therapy, or …
 
Jude is joined by Jeff Oh of the Divorced Dad podcast. Their topic is "Self Care" during and after divorce. Some tips include: - Taking control of and creating your environment - Get exercise, eat right, and get enough sleep - Make time for things that you like to do - Spend time with loved ones - Make sure to talk to someone Resources: The Divorce…
 
In April of 2020, a father of two decided to launch a YouTube channel to offer some friendly "DADvice" to those in need — advice he sorely lacked growing up after his own father left him and his seven siblings when he was only 14 years old. That Youtube channel is called DAD, HOW DO I and in under three months it has amassed over 2.4 million subscr…
 
Jude welcomes Stephane Jutras of the Divorced Dad Diaries and they discuss the topic of divorced dads "Starting Over." Many great tips are shared including: -Let yourself mourn the end of your marriage -Learn how to work through your feelings -Like yourself again -Rediscover things you used to like to do -Find new things that you like to do -Take s…
 
DILF's Happiness Checklist is a theory formed by our host, Kevin Seldon, that breaks down the five most important facets to living a healthy and fulfilled life: 1. Support Network // 2. Love // 3. Passion // 4. Health // 5. FUN In the end, Kevin's theory reveals that the most important key to sustaining mental health and happiness for fathers is a …
 
This is the first of DILF's #DadsofInstagram Series, where we invite on fathers who've entered the spotlight through social media primarily thanks to their life as a Dad. // To learn more about David and see some of his work, visit LifeWithBenjamin.com // For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, DM us at -> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast…
 
When host Kevin Seldon first introduced The DILF Podcast to James Kyson, the concept was to center their episode around the launch of DILF's Work/LIfe Balance Series, considering how much James travels as a working actor while still maintaining the desire to be an active presence in his daughter's life. However, when the coronavirus hit and James b…
 
The coronavirus has done less to create major problems in the world as it has to shine a bright spotlight on already existing problems throughout the globe, and for many of us... in our homes. However, if we can find ways to be our best selves and work to form true connections with our partners during all this chaos then maybe we'll have a strong f…
 
This is the first of DILF's new ongoing series, Expect The Unexpected, where we invite on dads-to-be to provide the often too-rare opportunity to explore feelings on pending fatherhood, and then welcome them back months later to see how any fears measured up to the realities of parenthood. The goal is to allow veteran parents to nostalgically revis…
 
Last week, we video chatted with my parents at around 4pm in the afternoon. They were both in bed, had been all day. And although they were excited to talk to their grandson, they were simultaneously glued to their bed and the tv news. And then my 18m son requested a song, but my mom singing apathetically from bed didn't exactly do the trick and he…
 
Before we can even attempt to follow the advice we've all read to calm our anxieties like going for walks, eating healthy, or meditating, we need to first ACKNOWLEDGE OUR FEELINGS. Pushing them down won't help you or anyone around you. Feeling anxious during this craziness is normal… at any age. In this episode, Kevin welcomes Ned Johnson (co-autho…
 
As of now, there's really no system in place to welcome, educate or support dads... not like there is for moms. Therefore, the simple action of making a new "dad friend" is no easy task. This episode is our first step in truly bringing these issues to light, and hopeful helping other dads out there to know that they are not alone. For questions, co…
 
A few weeks back, my wife and I were in the middle of an argument when I realized that WHAT we were actually fighting about had nothing to do with the situation before us or the words coming out of our mouths... we were each angry about other unresolved issues in our relationship and simply using this random argument to vent frustrations without ac…
 
Ultimately, the goal of a #DadTruth is to break all those stereotypes that present dads as the #2 parent coming off the bench — and instead encourage the idea that a parent is a parent... no matter their gender. Please JOIN US in the conversation by posting your own #DadTruth on instagram today, and don't forget to include #DadTruth + our Instagram…
 
Welcome to the The DILF Podcast! In our world, DILF means "Dad I'd Like to... FRIEND!" And that's exactly the goal of this podcast: to offer parents support through honest conversations about what it means to be a parent in the modern world. In this first episode, you'll get to know our host, Kevin Seldon, who's been working hard to fight all those…
 
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