show episodes
 
In this podcast, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to prov ...
 
All their lives Jordan and Brad, best friends in Toronto, were taught to feel shame about being gay. Then at 32 years old, after a few too many drinks, they had a new thought. Imagine if they were invincible to shame, not just about being gay, but in general. Join them as they spark a revolt against society’s norms. **Only 15 preview episodes on all players. The full archive of the show with over 90 hours of content is available exclusively through a membership at www.patreon.com/shameonyoupod**
 
Loading …
show series
 
This year, in recognition of DVAM or Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the Engendered Collective hosted a series of community conversations to bring greater awareness to domestic abuse and gender-based violence. This conversation deals with the intersection of abuse and police violence. Our guests included Effy Zarabi, Heather McWilliam, and Nanet…
 
Rodrigo Dias is a Partner at Greene Taubman Dias Chernus Simborg & Dominguez LLP, a California-based firm specializing in family law. Rodrigo has been representing clients in the San Francisco Bay area since 2007. His primary focuses are family law, child support, spousal support, dissolution, property division, child custody, and adoption. Rodrigo…
 
Here’s a scenario: You and your partner had a fight or disagreement. You want to talk about it; they don’t. Hmmm. How do you deal? In this podcast, my wife Ellen and I give you a few tips for you avoidant-types on how to deal with your partner who always wants a connection or wants to talk about it. Here’s a critical question I ask space-takers to …
 
Suzannah Weiss is a freelance writer specializing in sex and relationships. Her work has been widely published in outlets like The New York Times, The Washington Post, New York Magazine, Playboy, Teen Vogue, and more. Suzannah is also a relationship coach who gives psychic readings—a combination that she calls intuitive sex and love coaching. She g…
 
This year, in recognition of DVAM or Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the Engendered Collective hosted a series of community conversations to bring greater awareness to domestic abuse and gender-based violence. This first conversation deals with how we can create systems change and build a culture of accountability. Our guests included Elle Kamih…
 
Did you know when males have an emotive experience, two parts of the brain lights up? And when females have an emotive experience, nine parts of the brain light up? You’re probably thinking, why just two parts with men and nine parts with women? If you’re interested in brain differences that boys and girls experience from the time they start school…
 
Magenta Brooks is a relationship coach who specializes in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Magenta has given talks about consent, boundaries, communication, kink, and polyamory for over 20 years, and she has since gone on to create her own coaching practice, Polyamory Coaching with Magenta. Magenta herself is a polyamorous, pansexual mother of t…
 
In this "Reflections" episode Part 2, Teri and Michael reflect back on episodes on the topic of sex, womanhood, and femininity: Episode 117: Jennifer Block on “Everything Below the Waist: Why Health Care Needs a Feminist Revolution,” Episode 119: #SurvivorStories Series with “Sophia” on navigating the intersection of gender and race in healthcare, …
 
What happens when you’re in a relationship with someone who’s dealing with depression and is being distant? Should you stay or should you give them an ultimatum? In this week’s podcast, that was just one of the questions I answered from one of our listeners' posts in the Relationship School Facebook group. I covered a lot of ground in the sex and r…
 
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward—without judgment. She has a Ph.D. in Sociology with an emphasis in Sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and has been teaching sex education since her high school years. Dr. Murphy is also a yoga in…
 
**Note: We refer to Ashleigh as "Alyssa" because we recorded this interview prior to the lifting of her gag order. Ashleigh is now not legally prohibited from speaking publicly about her experience.** On this #SurvivorStories series episode, our guest is Ashleigh Rae, a survivor of sexual violence, childhood rape and sexual assault by multiple offe…
 
Somatic Abolitonist, Resmaa Menakem, shares a true story about racial discrimination between the police and his family. He also challenges the hell out of me. Man, this was a good one, very intense. I learned a ton. I continue to learn about how me, as a white heterosexual male, can improve in the area of race, equity and diversity. This is a prett…
 
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward—without judgment. She has a Ph.D. in Sociology with an emphasis in Sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and has been teaching sex education since her high school years. Dr. Murphy is also a yoga in…
 
On this episode of the en(gender)ed podcast, our guest is Jess Hill, an investigative journalist who has been researching and writing about domestic violence since 2014. We speak with Jess today about her book, newly released in the US “See What You Made Me Do: The Dangers of Domestic Abuse That We Ignore, Explain Away, or Refuse to See” which offe…
 
We continue our discussion from last week’s podcast with my wife Ellen on attachment dynamics. This week, writer Bethany Saltman, author of a "Strange Situation: A Mother's Journey into the Science of Attachment” breaks down her own experience with attachment after diving head first in the research. If you are unsure if you are “secure” or “insecur…
 
Joyce Swaving specializes in nonviolent communication and provides body positive and sex positive intimacy education to people of all ages. Joyce is also involved in promoting racial and social justice and is currently the President of the Interfaith Council of Greater Rancho Santa Margarita. Ensuring that everyone—from high school students to folk…
 
**Trigger Warning: This episode discusses child sexual abuse and symptoms of it.** On this #SurvivorStories series episode, our guest is “Courtney,” a survivor of domestic and institutional abuse. Courtney speaks to us about her experience navigating the family court, child welfare, medical and mental health systems, as a protective mom of a son wh…
 
Here’s a scenario: You want to talk about something that is bothering you, but your partner tells you they need some time to think and walks away. You end up feeling frustrated and ignored for the rest of the day. Sounds familiar, right? Then this new podcast will shed some serious light on this dynamic. If you are interested in attachment dynamics…
 
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This month, we’ve been featuring stories by survivors and hosting community conversations about domestic violence with members from the Engendered Collective. In two weeks, Americans will be going to polls to decide who they want to lead this country. If you’ve been paying attention to how our leaders a…
 
Dr. Devon Smith is an Associate Professor of Sociology at Palomar College in San Marcos, California. She received her Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from Emory University and her PhD in Sociology from the University of California, San Diego. Dr. Smith taught at UCSD for several years before landing her dream job as the Director of the Gender and W…
 
On this episode of the en(gender)ed podcast #SurvivorStories series, our guest is Shia Joyner, a survivor of childhood domestic violence and coercive control as an adult. Shia joins us today to explore the ways in which witnessing childhood abuse has shaped her perceptions about love, informed her relationships, and impacted her own experience of d…
 
Using psychedelics to resolve trauma wasn’t something I was aware of when I first started experimenting over 30 years ago. The research has exploded as well as the positive outcomes for people with PTSD. In this interview, I speak to one of the leading authorities on psychotherapy and psychedelics, Rick Doblin. Rick is such a trail-blazer. If you h…
 
When you were young, did you know how to work through conflict? Were the adults involved at all or was it more of a “hands off” situation? Whatever you went through as a kid, there’s another way. My belief is that if we raise kids in a good way, and teach them how to work through their differences, we’ll have a brighter future. My family and I want…
 
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward—without judgment. She has a Ph.D. in Sociology with an emphasis in Sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and has been teaching sex education since her high school years. Dr. Murphy is also a yoga in…
 
On this episode of the en(gender)ed podcast #SurvivorStories series, our guest is Angie Rivers, a police officer who is suing the Waterloo Regional Police service for systemic gender-based discrimination and sexual harassment by male members, senior officers and management of the Service. We speak with Angie today about what it means to be a woman …
 
Lisa Bayani is a nurse practitioner in obstetrics and gynecology who specializes in treating women throughout their life span. Her interests include reproductive health care, prenatal care, LGBTQ health care, vaginitis/vulvar conditions, and women’s sexual health issues. Lisa is married and has two young daughters. When she’s not helping to educate…
 
On this episode of the en(gender)ed #SurvivorStories series, we speak with Nanette Chezum, a survivor of officer involved domestic violence or domestic abuse with a police officer. We speak with Nanette about her experience as a survivor, the response from law enforcement, and how her experience was both informed and enabled by a culture of sexism,…
 
Many of our Relationship School students know the tool “sharing impact.” Well, now I have a short update on that tool for you. My wife and I made a big improvement based on something we saw with our students. When not done well, this tool can leave some people feeling defensive. So, we added a step that will mitigate some of that defensiveness. Che…
 
A lot of couples fight about money. Money has a lot of charge for most of us. That’s why I wanted to interview Ken Honda about how we can improve our relationship to money. Ken has written dozens of books and has tons of advice for you about money and how you can increase wealth and connection. I think you’ll enjoy this one. Shownotes: 4:05: Introd…
 
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward—without judgment. She has a Ph.D. in Sociology with an emphasis in Sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and has been teaching sex education since her high school years. Dr. Murphy is also a yoga in…
 
Mark Anthony Haviland is the Owner and Founder of Beyond Bodywork, a thriving bodywork practice based out of San Francisco. For the past 20 years, he has helped his clients develop a deeper understanding of the way emotions shape their experience of living in their bodies—and is known as the soul whisperer because of it. Mark has taught with his me…
 
On this episode of the en(gender)ed podcast, our guest is Kyl Myers, author of the book, Raising Them, a memoir on her journey in gender creative parenting and raising her child with the freedom to choose their own gender identity. We speak with Kyl today about raising her child, Zoomer Coyote, with her partner Brent, and her hopes, challenges, and…
 
On this episode of the en(gender)ed podcast, our guest is Susan Bordo, cultural historian, professor emeritus, feminist, and author of the books, The Destruction of Hillary Clinton and Imagine Bernie Sanders as a Woman. We speak with Susan today about her work to deconstruct woman as a cultural category, its role in the 2016 election, and what it m…
 
If you are single, I got some feedback from a lot of people on this. They helped me ensure that these are in fact, 3 of the biggest myths around being single. Would love your input. Take a listen and leave a comment on social, or below in the blog/podcast post. Shownotes: 4:45: Myth # 1 6:30: Myth # 2 8:25: Myth # 3 12:20: Action step Useful Links:…
 
A teaser of the infamous gay podcast. The full archive of the show with over 90 hours of content is available exclusively through a membership at www.patreon.com/shameonyoupod Buy "Famous Anus" the book https://www.amazon.com/Famous-Anus-Stories-Decade-Sinfluence/dp/1777162505/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=famous+anus&qid=1600372580&sr=8-1#customerR…
 
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward—without judgment. She has a Ph.D. in Sociology with an emphasis in Sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and has been teaching sex education since her high school years. Dr. Murphy is also a yoga in…
 
On this en(gender)ed #SurvivorStories series episode, our guest is Sophia, an African-American woman and public school teacher. Sofia shares with us today her experiences as a woman of color navigating the health care industry (one which we discussed in Episode 117 with Jennifer Block), one which through inadequate diagnoses, treats the symptoms of…
 
Have you ever upset someone because you wanted to speak your truth or follow your truth? If you choose to follow your heart in life, you’re going to upset people and disappoint people. It’s part of the path. But so many of us listen to the fear and shrink away from what’s true for us, instead of having the courage to stand up, express ourselves, or…
 
Loading …

Quick Reference Guide

Copyright 2020 | Sitemap | Privacy Policy | Terms of Service
Google login Twitter login Classic login