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Created by certified sex coach and educator Sara Tang, this podcast features intimate conversations about navigating sex in the modern world. On this frank, informative and lighthearted show, we tackle the taboos that many people commonly experience around sex. Expect banter and open hearted discussions between the hosts and their guests, as we dish up inspiration around how to get Better in Bed. Featured as the Best Sex Podcast on Esquire, The Guardian and more! Tune in now at http://sarase ...
 
This podcast and community create a safe space for women to find support, inspiration, and tools to uncover more joy and fulfillment in sex. Everyday women share stories, successes, and struggles, and experts give insights, address relationship/sexual challenges, and teach practical tools to help you embrace your sexuality. Join Ariel Finlinson as we talk about influences such as connection, culture, body image, religion, and anatomy. Together, let’s create a world where women’s sexuality is ...
 
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Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey- Psychologist & Sex Coach |Everything Sex

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Welcome to Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey! Welcoming to my virtual therapy rooms! Talking about sexual concerns, issues and problems can be incredibly difficult. Finding accurate information in this age of information overload is a challenge. Finding a safe space to raise sexual desires, fears and worries is often almost impossible. As a sex coach and psychotherapist, I offer a safe place from which to explore. Each week I will delve into a topic from the realm of sex, intimacy and ...
 
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You know that super sticky handful of lube you pull away after applying? Women’s sexual coach Dani Todd explains that it should not be that way. She shares the beauty of using a quality lube from orgasm to vaginal health. The Dating Diva’s 2022 virtual sex Seminar is AVAILABLE NOW!! Use this link for the 2022 Sex Seminar and get $15 OFF I’ve teamed…
 
What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around buil…
 
Mother’s Day can be hard, beautiful, heavy, and joyful. Some of us have lost our moms, don’t have children but desperately want them, or don’t feel celebrated in a way that helps us feel loved. Others of us may love Mother’s Day. Whatever your Mother’s Day holds, I hope that this episode will help you lean into the joys, challenges, and beauty of m…
 
Is three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vonnylang), to chat about our personal experiences around …
 
Working through body image struggles can feel overwhelming and lonely. It can feel like everyone else has their life together, AND the body that you wish you had! In this episode, two friends share some of their journeys as they’ve worked to overcome body image struggles. They share tips of things that have helped and things they currently use to w…
 
Have you ever heard: “Women don’t like sex as much as men.” or “Just have sex to keep your husband happy.” Well friends, often women simply haven’t been taught how to have good sex! Pleasure in sex is just as much for women! In this episode, sex educator and researcher Carlie Palmer-Webb helps us uncover ways to create the pleasure and connection w…
 
Do you have pain with sex? Women’s health physical therapist Dr. Janelle Howell shares not only common symptoms of vaginismus but how to get help. There is hope for those who struggle with pain during intercourse and it’s time to get help! Find Janelle at the vaginarehabdoctor.com and on Instagram @vaginarehabdoctor Pelvic Floor PT Finder Follow us…
 
Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I han…
 
Speaking up for our needs can be challenging, especially sexually. Researcher and educator Amber A. Price walks us through some of the tendencies we may fall into that cause us to silence our needs and how we can start to uncover, find, and meet those needs. Access Amber’s Handout here Find her at amberaprice.com or on Instagram @amber.a.price Ways…
 
Ever been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do? Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a task instead of a pleasure. That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, C…
 
Helping our kids recognize arousal but also have the tools to channel it in healthy ways within their values can feel overwhelming. Dr. Chelom Leavitt, a mother of 8, professor, and researcher shares key insights into talking with kids about arousal and giving them helpful tools. Find Dr. Leavitt at www.chelomleavitt.com, @sexualmindfulnessproject …
 
How does self-love help us have a better sex life? On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host and relationship coach Valentina Tudose of Happy Ever After to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom. We start off with a definition of how self-love is about accepting and integrating all parts of ourselves, eve…
 
Valentine’s Day can be a holiday full of expectations. In this episode we talk about getting past the expectations to uncover a unique and fulfilling celebration for you and your partner. Affiliate Link to the Intimately Us app: https://r.intimately.us/ladies Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalkinglove.com This…
 
How can we rekindle the sexual desire for a long-term partner? Or is desire always destined to fade? On this pre-Valentine’s Day episode, Sara chats with Dr. Kristin Zeising, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, and co-host Mo from the Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast, and we tackle all things sexual desire. Kristin shares the latest scienti…
 
In this episode with author Bethany Brady Spalding, we share a unique and cherished belief in my faith tradition that has transformed my view of myself and my sexuality for good. Find Bethany’s books at www.deseretbook.com and more information about how the books began here. Information about the NYC art exhibit: The Sacred Feminine in LDS Art & Th…
 
How are you incorporating erotic touch into your sex life? On this sensual episode, Sara chats with sex educator and founder of Confident Lovers, Christina Antonyan and co-host Kat Leung about the art of erotic touch. Touch is fundamentally important to all of us, as a love language and form of communication. It is also one of the key skills to the…
 
And everyone else! In this episode award-winning author Sheila Gregoire walks us through some of the harmful ideas around sexuality that can seep into religious teachings and have showed up repeatedly in top selling Christian marriage and sex books. Listen in to find out some of these harmful ideas and kick them out of your bedroom. Find Sheila’s b…
 
Can sex toys be good for our sexual - and overall - health? Many of us regard sex toys as tools of pleasure, but this informative episode will help you to rethink the possibilities of sex toys, and how you’re using them. Sara chats with Dr. Soum Rakshit, co-founder of Mysteryvibe, a brand that aims to solve big topics in sexual health in an accessi…
 
Three friends talk about creating Christmas traditions as a family and with your partner. We also cover some of the challenges that may come up figuring out traditions and making the holidays a special time despite the tendency for hustle and bustle. Find @simplyonpurpose Gifts of Togetherness under “Christmas Bundle.” This is the awesome episode “…
 
It can be hard to know how to talk about sexual abuse prevention and consent with our children. In this episode, Rosalia gives age appropriate insights and tips for starting the conversation with your kids! Find Rosalia at consentparenting.com or on Instagram @consentparenting, or listen to her podcast About Consent Find her book recommendations he…
 
How can you be more sexually assertive and dominant in the bedroom? Sara co-hosts this episode with kink coach Jannus, and we chat with guest Mistress Eva Oh, a professional dominatrix about her journey into BDSM. We discuss the psychology behind being assertive and dominant in a BDSM context and the dynamics that come with it. We learn where sexua…
 
Creating a relationship where you can share the deepest parts of yourself is vulnerable and challenging. In this episode, Tammy Hill talks about some of the challenges we may face in trying to create safe spaces, and also gives some beautiful examples of what creating a safe space looks like in everyday life. Find Tammy on instagram @tammy_hill_lmf…
 
Why is sex always so hot when you’re on holiday? In this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters. Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us, it allows us to break from routine and explore something new in a completely different setting. We tend to be les…
 
So many questions can come up around vaginal discharge that often remain unasked. Is my discharge normal? Why is white today? Do other women have this much discharge? In this episode with CNM Christine Borden, we dive into vaginal discharge and hope to help answer a lot of your unasked questions. Find Christine @midwifical on Instagram or midwifica…
 
This round table episode is an empowering reminder that healing, love, and sexual joy is possible after experiencing sexual abuse. Leticia and Shannon share insights about their healing journeys that are beautiful and raw. Even though we do not talk about specific details of the abuse, they share what helped them to recognize that what they experie…
 
In this episode, April Davis walks us through why vibrators can be a helpful tool to enhance sex with our partner. We also discuss how to find a vibrator and myths that may hold some of us back from trying one. Find April @thevaginablog on Instagram or thevaginablog.com April’s Vibrator Recommendations: Smilemakers Ioba toys The womanizer B-vibe Bi…
 
How do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist? Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers' rights in Singapore. Vanessa helps to clarify some of the biggest misconceptions around sex work, and shares with us how the nature of s…
 
Have you ever used a menstrual cup? Do you know what it is or how it works? In this episode, Meredith answers tons of commonly asked questions about menstrual cups. Find The Bloody Buddy Cup @bloodybuddycup on Instagram, their blog, Tiktok, or check out their website bloodybuddycup.com. Use the code ladiestalking for 10% off all of their products. …
 
Have you ever had big feelings show up out of the blue in response to a seemingly small event? In our discussion with Vernique Esther, we dig into uncovering the day to day manifestations of trauma (not the types of trauma we usually think of) that affect our ability to heal and thrive, and of course affect sex. Find Vernique Esther’s books, commun…
 
We’re kicking off Season 2 talking with professional counselor and relationship and sexuality coach Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We dive into important questions to uncover beliefs about sex that may be keeping you from orgasm and pleasure. You can find Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s podcast episodes, courses, and more by visiting finlayson-fife.com. Join th…
 
After a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent up sexual energy. So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach and clinical hypnotherapist, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex that is! Together we tackle common questions crowdsourced fr…
 
Calling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon? On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (PE). We start off by discussing the various ways to manage th…
 
This season finale episode with Jana and Elizabeth is full of personal stories and insights about moving your relationship to the next level through emotional intimacy. They dive into struggles and barriers they faced in creating intimacy and how overcoming these barriers allowed them to create deeper and more fulfilling relationships. Join the con…
 
Sexuality researcher Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray shares her groundbreaking discoveries surrounding male sexuality. In this episode, Dr. Murray challenges views of male sexuality that are prevalently accepted and believed. She opens the door to more understanding and authentic dialogues around male sexuality. You can find Dr. Murray’s blog, contact info…
 
Dr. Julie de Azevedo Hanks, PhD, LCSW, shares her thoughts about healing from the effects of modesty culture and helping to shift that culture to a better place in our families and communities. Find Dr. Hanks at drjuliehanks.com, @drjuliehanks on Instagram, or her podcast Ask Dr. Julie Hanks Her Books: The Assertiveness Guide for Women and The Burn…
 
Gender and sexuality researcher Carlie Palmer-Webb opens up a discussion about desire styles and why some of us may feel like we’ve lost our desire or can’t find it. Tune in to learn about responsive versus spontaneous desire. Just knowing that these two desire styles exist is a game changer to understanding how to discover or rediscover your desir…
 
[This episode was recorded live as part of the Hong Kong Podcast Festival 2021] Are you using your pelvic floor to experience better sex and orgasms? On this live episode, Sara is joined by Trista Chan, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist from Joint Dynamics to discuss the link between the pelvic floor and the role it plays in our sex lives. Trista exp…
 
In this episode, sexual mindfulness researcher Dr. Chelom Leavitt reminds us that “our presence is the most precious gift we can give anybody.” What keeps you from being present during sex? Thinking about work, the kids, household chores, etc. Listen in to hear tips about turning off the noise and tuning into the present moment. Find Dr. Leavitt’s …
 
Three best friends share their thoughts about experiencing and overcoming shame. All of these women got married later than was “normal” in their culture, but I think a lot of us will be able to resonate with some of their experiences and learn from their insight and tips. Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalking…
 
Why do we love having sexual fantasies, and what are their benefits? On this episode, Sara chats with guests Mo and Andy, who are stand-up comedians that host the local Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast so be prepared for some big laughs. We discuss how sexual fantasies stimulate arousal, are an escape from reality (like the pandemic), alleviate boredom and …
 
Family Life Educator Rian Gordon gives ideas to help parents navigate conversations with their kids about sex. From toddlers to teenagers and even couples preparing for marriage, I hope you find ideas that will spark conversations with your partner about how you want to talk with your kids about sex. Find The Healthy Human’s Project Blog at healthy…
 
Marriage and Family Therapist Natalie Andrews shares the effects of stress on desire and ability to feel pleasure. She shares tips to recognize and combat stressors in our life while also uncovering more about ourselves. For more information and scheduling teletherapy with Emma Schmidt and Associates visit: emma-schmidt.com You can connect on Insta…
 
What does consent look like, and how do you make it sexy? In this episode, Sara invites sex-positive friends Jessica and Prescott Gaylord to talk about their personal experiences on consent. Prescott is an improv actor and instructor who facilitates consent workshops. And on the show, he gives us practical techniques and exercises on how to establi…
 
Sex researcher and educator Carlie Palmer-Webb dives into the ins and outs of female anatomy so that women can uncover pleasure in their sex lives. She gives us a deep look into how to navigate religious or cultural beliefs while also getting to know our bodies. Find Carlie Palmer-Webb on Instagram @carliepalmerwebb Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski…
 
April Davis from The Vagina Blog shares her wisdom from birth control to menstrual cycles. She shares tips and insight into making your menstrual cycle a power to tap into instead of something to get through. Find April @thevaginablog on Instagram or thevaginablog.com The Period Repair Manual by Lara Briden Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni W…
 
Is long-distance a deal-breaker for your sex and love life, or can it actually make things hotter and better? In this episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Helen and James, who have both been in long-term long-distance relationships and are happy to share their experiences. We talk about some of the difficulties couples may experience with …
 
Kayla and Lauren share how the media and their families shaped their views of sexuality before their sexual debuts. We dig into some of the lies around sexuality that the media portrays and what what we've found to actually be true about sex! I hope you enjoy. Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalkinglove.com Thi…
 
Ellie Wilson, a professional artist, shares her views on beauty and body image. From celebrating diverse bodies as beautiful to displaying tasteful nude art in your home, Ellie may give you a new perspective of beauty. You can find Ellie @elliewilsonart on Instagram or her website artellie.com. Find figure art she likes on her pinterest page. Some …
 
Dan and Emily Purcell are the co-creators of the organization Get your Marriage on and the app Intimately Us. A lot of us don’t understand the potential for unleashing connection and pleasure (for both the husband and wife) in our relationship, if we would take more time to connect emotionally. In this episode, you’ll hear stories and tips about ho…
 
In this episode, Erin Novak, dives into her experience of infertility. She shares insight into overcoming feelings of brokenness and keeping sex a bonding experience even when infertility can put the pressure on to perform. She gives great tips of ways friends and family can be supportive. Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or v…
 
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